Wednesday, January 14, 2015
Reviving VBC
Two former members of the Virtual Book Club would like to revive it. If interested, contact e or tut-tut via their respective blogs. Thanks for your interest.
Thursday, November 28, 2013
Revival?
Shall we revive this blog? One person thinks we should. The problem is the commenting format, which I think should be in a real-time way. What do you think? Anyone??
Saturday, November 19, 2011
The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society: E's Remarks
Has anyone out there ever found the name of a stranger in a second-hand book and wondered about them?
I’ll confess to a flicker of thought about who may have read a book that somehow made its way into my hands, though never have I acted upon the impulse to communicate with them.
I’m simply not that brave; I had to work hard to visualize a reserved man from Guernsey writing a stranger in London because he’d read a book she had once owned and wanted further reading recommendations from her.
I wonder what went through his mind as he carefully composed his request. Sixty years ago, would such a request have been taken at face value or might it have been viewed as odd?
My guess is, since people communicated largely through letters and telegrams unless they could meet face-to-face such a request would have been answered eventually, as it was in The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society.
Penned by Mary Ann Schaffer and her niece, Annie Barrows, the book takes the reader back to post-war England and the Channel island of Guernsey. It is 1946 and both London and Guernsey share the grief and ravages of war. We meet a young writer, Juliet Ashton, and her friend and editor discussing via letter a book tour, her correspondence with friends and the receipt of a letter from an unknown man detailing his discovery of a book she once owned.
With time, the two develop an ongoing correspondence through which the reader learns of the Nazi occupation of Guernsey and the existence and membership of the island’s literary society. This presents Juliet with exciting possibilities for a new book and she soon finds herself engrossed in the lives of each society member and their families.
At the center of poignant anecdotes is a young woman, Elizabeth McKenna, whose whereabouts since her arrest by the Nazis is initially unknown. It is she who creates the society, first as a ruse, to hide the consumption of contraband pork by the group, which meets for dinner and then flouts the Nazi occupiers curfew. We learn too that Elizabeth becomes a central character in the lives of those she befriends and cares for on the island. She is presented as an unconventional woman who falls in love with a young German doctor, eventually having his daughter and raising her in tightknit Guernsey. When Elizabeth assists a young Nazi prisoner and arrested for her crime by the Nazis, all of Elizabeth’s friends care for four-year-old Kit, hoping for her mother’s return.
It is at this point that Juliet decides to meet the literary society members in person. She journeys to Guernsey and in Elizabeth’s cottage, falls in love with the place, its inhabitants, Kit and the gentleman she first met when he wrote her as a stranger.
For her part, Juliet sees beyond grief and loss in those around her. Having lost her own parents as a girl, she is no stranger to grief or anger, but it is the love for Kit that surprises her as well as her willingness to leave life in London behind for the sense of extended family she finds on the island.
Juliet learns of Elizabeth’s death at the hands of her captors and the horrors faced in her concentration camp through a French survivor, Elizabeth’s friend Remy. Like Juliet, Remy is invited to Guernsey to heal. Though she recuperates physically, Remy remains haunted by her experiences and eventually leaves for Paris to begin life anew.
The book ends with the promise of marriage for Juliet and her desire to adopt Kit. A novel rooted in contemporary history, The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society is also about transformation and the power of the human spirit to overcome oppressive forces.
The letter is used very cleverly in this book as a literary device. Much as I tried to picture the same information conveyed by e-mail, I could not. What would be lost? Warmth, the sense that the letter writer carefully selected his or her words and cared about the feelings communicated.
Additionally, the gift of detail or nuance, more easily explained in a letter, is often missing in today’s truncated electronic missives. The time taken to write a letter may also make a difference to its recipient. Finally, one does not keep e-mails as special tokens of attention, time or history. They cannot be bundled and put in a special place to preserve moments in time, as letters often were. There is a certain charm about this book that comes through in the letters between its characters. I would sum it up as an enjoyable read.
I’ll confess to a flicker of thought about who may have read a book that somehow made its way into my hands, though never have I acted upon the impulse to communicate with them.
I’m simply not that brave; I had to work hard to visualize a reserved man from Guernsey writing a stranger in London because he’d read a book she had once owned and wanted further reading recommendations from her.
I wonder what went through his mind as he carefully composed his request. Sixty years ago, would such a request have been taken at face value or might it have been viewed as odd?
My guess is, since people communicated largely through letters and telegrams unless they could meet face-to-face such a request would have been answered eventually, as it was in The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society.
Penned by Mary Ann Schaffer and her niece, Annie Barrows, the book takes the reader back to post-war England and the Channel island of Guernsey. It is 1946 and both London and Guernsey share the grief and ravages of war. We meet a young writer, Juliet Ashton, and her friend and editor discussing via letter a book tour, her correspondence with friends and the receipt of a letter from an unknown man detailing his discovery of a book she once owned.
With time, the two develop an ongoing correspondence through which the reader learns of the Nazi occupation of Guernsey and the existence and membership of the island’s literary society. This presents Juliet with exciting possibilities for a new book and she soon finds herself engrossed in the lives of each society member and their families.
At the center of poignant anecdotes is a young woman, Elizabeth McKenna, whose whereabouts since her arrest by the Nazis is initially unknown. It is she who creates the society, first as a ruse, to hide the consumption of contraband pork by the group, which meets for dinner and then flouts the Nazi occupiers curfew. We learn too that Elizabeth becomes a central character in the lives of those she befriends and cares for on the island. She is presented as an unconventional woman who falls in love with a young German doctor, eventually having his daughter and raising her in tightknit Guernsey. When Elizabeth assists a young Nazi prisoner and arrested for her crime by the Nazis, all of Elizabeth’s friends care for four-year-old Kit, hoping for her mother’s return.
It is at this point that Juliet decides to meet the literary society members in person. She journeys to Guernsey and in Elizabeth’s cottage, falls in love with the place, its inhabitants, Kit and the gentleman she first met when he wrote her as a stranger.
For her part, Juliet sees beyond grief and loss in those around her. Having lost her own parents as a girl, she is no stranger to grief or anger, but it is the love for Kit that surprises her as well as her willingness to leave life in London behind for the sense of extended family she finds on the island.
Juliet learns of Elizabeth’s death at the hands of her captors and the horrors faced in her concentration camp through a French survivor, Elizabeth’s friend Remy. Like Juliet, Remy is invited to Guernsey to heal. Though she recuperates physically, Remy remains haunted by her experiences and eventually leaves for Paris to begin life anew.
The book ends with the promise of marriage for Juliet and her desire to adopt Kit. A novel rooted in contemporary history, The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society is also about transformation and the power of the human spirit to overcome oppressive forces.
The letter is used very cleverly in this book as a literary device. Much as I tried to picture the same information conveyed by e-mail, I could not. What would be lost? Warmth, the sense that the letter writer carefully selected his or her words and cared about the feelings communicated.
Additionally, the gift of detail or nuance, more easily explained in a letter, is often missing in today’s truncated electronic missives. The time taken to write a letter may also make a difference to its recipient. Finally, one does not keep e-mails as special tokens of attention, time or history. They cannot be bundled and put in a special place to preserve moments in time, as letters often were. There is a certain charm about this book that comes through in the letters between its characters. I would sum it up as an enjoyable read.
Friday, June 4, 2010
Woman in the Fifth - Megan's Complaints :)
Overall, I have to give a thumbs down on this one. Although I admit to feeling some suspense and I enjoyed the descriptions of Paris and the differences between neighborhoods.
But everything was just a little too. Do you know what I mean?
The nasty desk clerk. That man went beyond nasty to the point where I couldn’t believe what was coming out of his mouth. I mean, really.
Omar. A dirty thug for a neighbor is certainly a possibility. Does he have to be a dirty thug who, aside from his regular dirty thug bad habits, uses the “minimum amount of toilet paper?” Come on.
The secret of the warehouse. They can’t just be dealing drugs down there. Or porn. Oh, no, of course not. They’re doing both those things plus making snuff films!
The Terrible Tragedy. Not only did he sleep with a student and lose his job. He slept with a student who killed herself AND his wife was sleeping with the Dean at the same time!
Now, maybe everything had to be awful to the nth degree before “our hero” was in the correct state of mind for Margit to appear. That was certainly implied. Her story was horrific to the nth degree, that’s for sure. What do you think?
I will say I wasn’t as disappointed as Beth about the supernatural aspect. Maybe it’s all that fantasy I still like to read. But even there the author goes overboard eventually. I can get behind a spectre that assists her chosen swain by planting evidence or causing accidents. But then all of a sudden she’s manipulating the Dean’s computer and waking the daughter up from a “non-responsive” coma?
And at the end, what? He gets a nice apartment and a nice job teaching Film Studies and he gets laid every three days.
Meh.
But everything was just a little too. Do you know what I mean?
The nasty desk clerk. That man went beyond nasty to the point where I couldn’t believe what was coming out of his mouth. I mean, really.
Omar. A dirty thug for a neighbor is certainly a possibility. Does he have to be a dirty thug who, aside from his regular dirty thug bad habits, uses the “minimum amount of toilet paper?” Come on.
The secret of the warehouse. They can’t just be dealing drugs down there. Or porn. Oh, no, of course not. They’re doing both those things plus making snuff films!
The Terrible Tragedy. Not only did he sleep with a student and lose his job. He slept with a student who killed herself AND his wife was sleeping with the Dean at the same time!
Now, maybe everything had to be awful to the nth degree before “our hero” was in the correct state of mind for Margit to appear. That was certainly implied. Her story was horrific to the nth degree, that’s for sure. What do you think?
I will say I wasn’t as disappointed as Beth about the supernatural aspect. Maybe it’s all that fantasy I still like to read. But even there the author goes overboard eventually. I can get behind a spectre that assists her chosen swain by planting evidence or causing accidents. But then all of a sudden she’s manipulating the Dean’s computer and waking the daughter up from a “non-responsive” coma?
And at the end, what? He gets a nice apartment and a nice job teaching Film Studies and he gets laid every three days.
Meh.
Thursday, May 27, 2010
Woman in the Fifth
Is the floor open for comments/discussion? Megan, e, anyone? I have a bone to pick . . . with the author
Saturday, April 24, 2010
Lunch in Paris Summary And Comments...
An expat American woman studying in London meets a French professional and newly-minted Ph.D at a digitisation conference, they eventually have lunch, and while enjoying what has to be the most sensual meal I've read about in years, decide to have their after-lunch tea at his apartment. Both realise their desire for the other, and for her part, the American, though hesitant about being viewed as potentially slutty, decides her French man is nonetheless worth that risk. So begins Elizabeth Bard's Lunch in Paris...
Described by the author as a love story with recipes, the book, an engaging read from start to finish, pulls its readers along on a budding romance that blossoms into marriage, the melding of two linguistically challenged but loving families and an on-going exploration of what it can be like to live in a culture different from one's own.
Growing up as an expat myself, the interplay of cultures, the expectations engendered and the experiences that widen perspective have always intrigued me. For both Elizabeth and her husband, Gwendal, widening perspectives yield unanticipated results. In Elizabeth's case, this shows in the increasing knowledge that her life in Paris will be very different from the almost punch list-like achievement orientation found in her New York peers. At the same time, she uses her drive and vision to help shape and guide Gwendal's aspirations beyond what French convention says is possible, with apparent and growing success.
Equally interesting is Elizabeth's attraction to Paris, with its myriad museums, a city steeped in history, art, music, cinema, markets, and, of course, food. It is in food and French cooking that Elizabeth re-claims her joie de vivre while acclimating to the life and rhythms of her new home. Each chapter contains the fruits of her learning and labours, from entrees to lovely vegetables and sumptious desserts for each season or major event, including her husband's wonderful apricot charlotte.
Refreshingly penned, the book grew out of conversations with friends and the author's desire for a project that would focus not only her writing skills, but those she was gaining as a cook and a resident within French daily life and culture.
For more information on the book, visit http://www.amazon.com or the author's blog at http://elizabethbard.blogspot.com.
Interested readers can also consult the Readers Guide for the book that Elizabeth put together and which is posted below this entry.
As there are 13 questions, those of us participating in this discussion have agreed to answer the specific questions which each of us find most compelling. Visitors to this blog can check the Comments Section for those.
As this month's commentator, I will post my observations and questions here.
1. In Lunch in Paris, major life events are landmarked by food. Why is food such a potent force — and is this particularly true in France? Has a meal ever changed your life? Do you have a particular food that brings to mind certain memories, certain people?
Food is a potent socialiser and bonding experience in cultures across the world. Why? Because it is used for nourishment, to convey love, to convey and celebrate accomplishment, to assuage unhappiness or to provide reward. It is also a focal point for religious, social and cultural events, whether one is French or not.
I enjoyed seeing the differences between French and American eating customs, some of which were quite telling. For example, the French often serve multi-course meals but portions are smaller, and everything is good in moderation, whereas in America, gluttony often appears to rule the day, as does the comsumption of processed or fast foods, and we now have the rates of diabetes, obesity and other diseases to prove the point, unfortunately.
Growing up as an expat, I was exposed to American and Central American foods, fresh vegetables and tropical fruits. The foods of Panama will forever have special memories and meanings for me, as do the foods commonly served during Passover, for example. A restaurant meeting in which I barely ate due to nervousness landed me my first long term writing job, and birthdays are always celebrated with a meal. What has changed significantly is how and what I eat; I always shop the freshest aisles of the market, rarely eat restaurant food, try to follow a mostly vegan regime and avoid sweets except for the occasional treat. My portions are smaller and since I cannot drink alcohol, my food budget stays fairly consistent. I've made a couple of Elizabeth's recipes and they were wonderful.
2. Elizabeth is slow to assimilate into French culture, in spite of her eagerness to do so. Which parts of this adaptation do you think would be the most difficult?
I've thought about this since I would like to visit Paris again...For me, it would be learning to get around the city or neighbourhoods, learning the language, although I speak more than one, and learning about what not to do when interacting with others...For example, here, many people mention what they earn in relation to their jobs but in France, this is a social no-no. It is considered uncouth.
4. Halfway through a first date with her future husband, Gwendal, Elizabeth goes home with him. How key a role does food play in the seduction that follows? How does sex on a first date play differently between France and America? Does the author seem confused or liberated — or both — by the cultural differences?
Food apparently plays a role through the entire process, starting with the mint tea and beyond with the post-coital apricot charlotte...I think the biggest difference is that American women are taught to think about sex and love...ie does he love me, will he still call me...etc, and worrying about "reputation" rather than asking themselves "do I like this person?" "would I enjoy being with this guy?" "Can I have sex without feeling guilty over it," rather than looking at it as being okay to climb between the sheets with someone in order to get to know them and have a bit of fun? I think Elizabeth seems a bit divided on this issue to begin with but gradually decides it is okay...I think I was ahead of my generation on this issue because I have always felt that women have as much right to sex as their partners, and have as much right to explore this arena.
12. Elizabeth voices serious doubts about raising a child under the French system of health care, after seeing how doctors treated Gwendal’s father. Is her wariness justified? Would you be able to reconcile the French outlook with your own?
Unfortunately, what happened to Gwendal's father can happen anywhere and has indeed happened in America to me and others I've known. Bad doctors and their misjudgements, lack of care or even overconcern with money or class can exist anywhere. If one is marginalised or looked down upon socially, their lives or productivity are often judged as being of less value which may be reflected in the time and attention they receive. I think the way we deal with these issues may be vastly different in terms of litigation but very few people in this situation have the time or resources to fight back. The American healthcare system is now so fragmented and hard to access that even those with resources find it difficult to use. We no longer have bragging rights in this area, in my opinion.
Check the Comments Section for Further Discussion and Happy Reading!
Described by the author as a love story with recipes, the book, an engaging read from start to finish, pulls its readers along on a budding romance that blossoms into marriage, the melding of two linguistically challenged but loving families and an on-going exploration of what it can be like to live in a culture different from one's own.
Growing up as an expat myself, the interplay of cultures, the expectations engendered and the experiences that widen perspective have always intrigued me. For both Elizabeth and her husband, Gwendal, widening perspectives yield unanticipated results. In Elizabeth's case, this shows in the increasing knowledge that her life in Paris will be very different from the almost punch list-like achievement orientation found in her New York peers. At the same time, she uses her drive and vision to help shape and guide Gwendal's aspirations beyond what French convention says is possible, with apparent and growing success.
Equally interesting is Elizabeth's attraction to Paris, with its myriad museums, a city steeped in history, art, music, cinema, markets, and, of course, food. It is in food and French cooking that Elizabeth re-claims her joie de vivre while acclimating to the life and rhythms of her new home. Each chapter contains the fruits of her learning and labours, from entrees to lovely vegetables and sumptious desserts for each season or major event, including her husband's wonderful apricot charlotte.
Refreshingly penned, the book grew out of conversations with friends and the author's desire for a project that would focus not only her writing skills, but those she was gaining as a cook and a resident within French daily life and culture.
For more information on the book, visit http://www.amazon.com or the author's blog at http://elizabethbard.blogspot.com.
Interested readers can also consult the Readers Guide for the book that Elizabeth put together and which is posted below this entry.
As there are 13 questions, those of us participating in this discussion have agreed to answer the specific questions which each of us find most compelling. Visitors to this blog can check the Comments Section for those.
As this month's commentator, I will post my observations and questions here.
1. In Lunch in Paris, major life events are landmarked by food. Why is food such a potent force — and is this particularly true in France? Has a meal ever changed your life? Do you have a particular food that brings to mind certain memories, certain people?
Food is a potent socialiser and bonding experience in cultures across the world. Why? Because it is used for nourishment, to convey love, to convey and celebrate accomplishment, to assuage unhappiness or to provide reward. It is also a focal point for religious, social and cultural events, whether one is French or not.
I enjoyed seeing the differences between French and American eating customs, some of which were quite telling. For example, the French often serve multi-course meals but portions are smaller, and everything is good in moderation, whereas in America, gluttony often appears to rule the day, as does the comsumption of processed or fast foods, and we now have the rates of diabetes, obesity and other diseases to prove the point, unfortunately.
Growing up as an expat, I was exposed to American and Central American foods, fresh vegetables and tropical fruits. The foods of Panama will forever have special memories and meanings for me, as do the foods commonly served during Passover, for example. A restaurant meeting in which I barely ate due to nervousness landed me my first long term writing job, and birthdays are always celebrated with a meal. What has changed significantly is how and what I eat; I always shop the freshest aisles of the market, rarely eat restaurant food, try to follow a mostly vegan regime and avoid sweets except for the occasional treat. My portions are smaller and since I cannot drink alcohol, my food budget stays fairly consistent. I've made a couple of Elizabeth's recipes and they were wonderful.
2. Elizabeth is slow to assimilate into French culture, in spite of her eagerness to do so. Which parts of this adaptation do you think would be the most difficult?
I've thought about this since I would like to visit Paris again...For me, it would be learning to get around the city or neighbourhoods, learning the language, although I speak more than one, and learning about what not to do when interacting with others...For example, here, many people mention what they earn in relation to their jobs but in France, this is a social no-no. It is considered uncouth.
4. Halfway through a first date with her future husband, Gwendal, Elizabeth goes home with him. How key a role does food play in the seduction that follows? How does sex on a first date play differently between France and America? Does the author seem confused or liberated — or both — by the cultural differences?
Food apparently plays a role through the entire process, starting with the mint tea and beyond with the post-coital apricot charlotte...I think the biggest difference is that American women are taught to think about sex and love...ie does he love me, will he still call me...etc, and worrying about "reputation" rather than asking themselves "do I like this person?" "would I enjoy being with this guy?" "Can I have sex without feeling guilty over it," rather than looking at it as being okay to climb between the sheets with someone in order to get to know them and have a bit of fun? I think Elizabeth seems a bit divided on this issue to begin with but gradually decides it is okay...I think I was ahead of my generation on this issue because I have always felt that women have as much right to sex as their partners, and have as much right to explore this arena.
12. Elizabeth voices serious doubts about raising a child under the French system of health care, after seeing how doctors treated Gwendal’s father. Is her wariness justified? Would you be able to reconcile the French outlook with your own?
Unfortunately, what happened to Gwendal's father can happen anywhere and has indeed happened in America to me and others I've known. Bad doctors and their misjudgements, lack of care or even overconcern with money or class can exist anywhere. If one is marginalised or looked down upon socially, their lives or productivity are often judged as being of less value which may be reflected in the time and attention they receive. I think the way we deal with these issues may be vastly different in terms of litigation but very few people in this situation have the time or resources to fight back. The American healthcare system is now so fragmented and hard to access that even those with resources find it difficult to use. We no longer have bragging rights in this area, in my opinion.
Check the Comments Section for Further Discussion and Happy Reading!
Sunday, April 18, 2010
Lunch in Paris Readers Guide Questions...
As promised, I've posted Elizabeth Bard's Lunch in Paris Readers Guide here so that those who are reading and any who may be interested in the upcoming discussion will have the questions readily available. A summary of the book and my observations will be posted by April 30. The author, Elizabeth Bard, has promised to drop by around that date. Thanks and happy reading!
READING GROUP GUIDE
Lunch in Paris: A Love Story, with Recipes
By Elizabeth Bard
Questions and Topics for Discussion
1. In Lunch in Paris, major life events are landmarked by food. Why is food such a potent force — and is this particularly true in France? Has a meal ever changed your life? Do you have a particular food that brings to mind certain memories, certain people?
2. Elizabeth is slow to assimilate into French culture, in spite of her eagerness to do so. Which parts of this adaptation do you think would be the most difficult?
3. Elizabeth faces some linguistic challenges as well as cultural ones, especially when she meets Gwendal’s parents — and introduces them to her own. How does she overcome communication barriers? Have you ever found yourself in a situation where you needed to rely on a form of communication other than language?
4. Halfway through a first date with her future husband, Gwendal, Elizabeth goes home with him. How key a role does food play in the seduction that follows? How does sex on a first date play differently between France and America? Does the author seem confused or liberated — or both — by the cultural differences?
5. Elizabeth has some difficulty adjusting to life in Paris after having grown up in New York. What are the main differences she sees between French and American culture?
6. In the beginning, Elizabeth has trouble understanding Gwendal’s lack of a concrete “five year plan.” Throughout the book, how do their different visions of success clash and,ultimately, complement each other?
7. In explaining his frustrations with the French system, Gwendal quotes the American author (and former Paris resident) Henry Miller: “In America, every man is potentially president. Here, every man is potentially a zero.” What do you make of Gwendal’s statement?
8. Elizabeth pushes Gwendal to pursue his career beyond what is generally socially acceptable. What do you make of her effort —and his eventual success?
9. Despite some misgivings, Elizabeth is helpless but to fall in love with French cooking. What would you say typifies Parisian cuisine? If you had to serve a meal "typical" of your culture to a French person, what would it be like? What do you think your way of eating says
about your country and its culture?
10. What meal or dish could you be seduced by — or which would you use to seduce someone?
11. When Elizabeth asks for a “normal”-size piece of cake at a family dinner, she makes a subtle cultural error that takes her a long time to understand. Have you ever been in a situation where you felt you missed a social cue but didn’t quite understand what you did wrong?
12. Elizabeth voices serious doubts about raising a child under the French system of health care, after seeing how doctors treated Gwendal’s father. Is her wariness justified? Would you be able to reconcile the French outlook with your own?
13. What will be the ongoing challenges — and opportunities — as Elizabeth and Gwendal continue to shape their life and grow their family in Paris?
READING GROUP GUIDE
Lunch in Paris: A Love Story, with Recipes
By Elizabeth Bard
Questions and Topics for Discussion
1. In Lunch in Paris, major life events are landmarked by food. Why is food such a potent force — and is this particularly true in France? Has a meal ever changed your life? Do you have a particular food that brings to mind certain memories, certain people?
2. Elizabeth is slow to assimilate into French culture, in spite of her eagerness to do so. Which parts of this adaptation do you think would be the most difficult?
3. Elizabeth faces some linguistic challenges as well as cultural ones, especially when she meets Gwendal’s parents — and introduces them to her own. How does she overcome communication barriers? Have you ever found yourself in a situation where you needed to rely on a form of communication other than language?
4. Halfway through a first date with her future husband, Gwendal, Elizabeth goes home with him. How key a role does food play in the seduction that follows? How does sex on a first date play differently between France and America? Does the author seem confused or liberated — or both — by the cultural differences?
5. Elizabeth has some difficulty adjusting to life in Paris after having grown up in New York. What are the main differences she sees between French and American culture?
6. In the beginning, Elizabeth has trouble understanding Gwendal’s lack of a concrete “five year plan.” Throughout the book, how do their different visions of success clash and,ultimately, complement each other?
7. In explaining his frustrations with the French system, Gwendal quotes the American author (and former Paris resident) Henry Miller: “In America, every man is potentially president. Here, every man is potentially a zero.” What do you make of Gwendal’s statement?
8. Elizabeth pushes Gwendal to pursue his career beyond what is generally socially acceptable. What do you make of her effort —and his eventual success?
9. Despite some misgivings, Elizabeth is helpless but to fall in love with French cooking. What would you say typifies Parisian cuisine? If you had to serve a meal "typical" of your culture to a French person, what would it be like? What do you think your way of eating says
about your country and its culture?
10. What meal or dish could you be seduced by — or which would you use to seduce someone?
11. When Elizabeth asks for a “normal”-size piece of cake at a family dinner, she makes a subtle cultural error that takes her a long time to understand. Have you ever been in a situation where you felt you missed a social cue but didn’t quite understand what you did wrong?
12. Elizabeth voices serious doubts about raising a child under the French system of health care, after seeing how doctors treated Gwendal’s father. Is her wariness justified? Would you be able to reconcile the French outlook with your own?
13. What will be the ongoing challenges — and opportunities — as Elizabeth and Gwendal continue to shape their life and grow their family in Paris?
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